You Won’t Get What You Want Until You Become the Person Who Has It

We’ve all heard the saying, “What you put out into the world comes back to you.” But what if the key to achieving your goals isn’t just about taking the right actions, but about becoming the right person—the person who already has everything you want?

If you’ve ever felt like you’re almost there but something’s still holding you back, this post is for you. It’s about making a simple, yet profound shift in how you approach your goals: stepping into your future self and embracing the person you need to become to unlock the success you desire.

The Secret to Achieving Your Goals: Become the Person Who Already Has It

Most of us think that success is something that happens to us once we do certain things. Maybe you think that if you just take enough action, you’ll eventually have the business, the body, the life, or the mindset you desire. But here’s the truth: you won’t get what you want until you become the person who already has it.

This doesn’t mean waiting for the “perfect” moment. It means shifting your mindset and becoming the version of you who is already living that reality. It's about embodying that success and starting to think, act, and move like the person you want to be—right now.

How to Step Into Your Future Self

I’ve learned a simple hack that has helped me make this transition. This isn’t about waiting for things to fall into place or hoping that one day, you’ll wake up and have everything you’ve ever wanted. Instead, it’s about taking control and becoming the person who is already living that life.

Here’s the hack:

1. Identify What You Want

This is where it all begins. Get clear on what you want. Be specific. Do you want to become a successful entrepreneur? Do you want a healthier body? Do you want more peace and less stress? Whatever it is, get crystal clear on the outcome you’re working toward.

2. Who Do You Need to Become to Have It?

This is the crucial step: get granular. Think about the person who already has what you want. How do they walk into a room? What kind of energy do they give off? How do they start their day? How do they interact with people? How do they work? What do they eat? What kind of exercise do they do?

Don’t just think about the big picture—get detailed. Do they wake up early? Are they organized and disciplined? Do they take risks? Do they prioritize their health? Getting clear on who that future version of you is will help you understand what actions you need to take and how you need to show up every day.

3. The Next Time You Feel Hesitation or Fear, Ask Yourself: “What Would Future [Your Name] Do?”

We all have moments when fear, hesitation, or self-doubt creeps in. It’s normal to feel that way, but here’s the key: your future self would never let those feelings stop them from moving forward.

The next time you face hesitation or fear about taking a step toward your goals, write down “WWF_D” on a notepad, mirror, or even on your hand (just like I do). That stands for “What Would Future [Your Name] Do?”

By doing this, you’re reminding yourself to step into your future self. You’re anchoring yourself to the version of you who’s already achieved success and isn’t letting fear hold them back. You’ll be amazed at how powerful this simple question can be in guiding you toward your next step.

4. Then Act As If

Once you’ve answered the question, it’s time to act. Act as if you are already the person who has what you want. Make decisions from the mindset of your future self. Take action, even if it feels uncomfortable. Don’t wait for things to feel perfect. Instead, trust that you’re becoming the person who’s already living the life you desire.

Why This Works

You might be wondering why this hack is so effective. After all, it’s just a simple question, right? Here’s the thing: our thoughts shape our reality. When you start to step into your future self and take action from that place, you align your mindset, energy, and actions with the outcome you want.

By asking, “What Would Future [Your Name] Do?” you create clarity and motivation. You shift your perspective from one of fear and doubt to one of confidence and determination. And the more you act as if, the faster you will close the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

What’s Holding You Back?

We all experience fear. We all have moments where we doubt ourselves or procrastinate. But the key is not letting those feelings control you. Instead, make the choice to step into the person you want to become.

Next time you feel that hesitation, I challenge you to ask yourself, “What would my future self do?” and then act from that place. The more you do this, the more you’ll see the life you’ve been dreaming of unfold before you.

Action Step for You

Before you leave this post, I want you to do something simple:

1. Write down the name of one thing you’ve been putting off—something you know would bring you closer to your goals.

2. Ask yourself, “What would my future self do in this situation?”

3. Take one small action based on that answer—don’t wait for the perfect moment, just do it.

You have everything you need inside you to achieve your goals. Now, it’s time to become the person who already has it.

#futureself #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters